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    Book Report

    Dallas confessions of a New York Times best-selling author

    Anna Fialho Byers
    Jun 13, 2016 | 12:00 pm
    Writer Sarah Hepola
    Sarah Hepola's memoir, Blackout: Remembering the Things I Drank to Forget, is out in paperback this month.
    Photo by Zan Keith

    In her New York Times best-selling memoir, Blackout: Remembering the Things I Drank to Forget, Sarah Hepola writes a harrowing tale of her battle with alcoholism, which, as the title indicates, more often than not led her to drink to the point of blacking out.

    Hepola’s story is more than the typical tale of redemption, though. It’s a brutally honest — and, at times, outright funny — look at one woman’s struggle to understand her inner self and become the person she knew she could be, without the liquid courage of alcohol.

    In advance of her June 14 appearance at Wild Detectives to chat about Blackout (which is being released in paperback this month), we asked Hepola about her sobriety, what she loves most about Dallas, and what she has planned next.

    CultureMap: What led you to write Blackout?

    Sarah Hepola: I was hell-bent on accomplishing something in sobriety I had not done in my drinking life. I’d wanted to write a book as long as I’ve wanted to do anything. I was so scared and broken after I quit that it took about six months to realize this was an opportunity.

    They say write what you know. I didn’t know anything better than drinking. I had an unofficial Ph.D.

    CM: You’ve talked about how you drank to deal with issues like body-consciousness, self-doubt, and the need to be liked. Do you still struggle with those issues?

    SH: Always and forever I will deal with those issues. I don’t know many people who don’t. The good part about quitting drinking is that when you take away the anesthesia, you can start addressing the original wound.

    Why am I so mixed up about my body? What could I do about that? You leave the land of numbness and enter the world of action. That said, I’m reminded every day why I used to drink. Oh yeah, dealing with life on its own terms is hard.

    CM: What do you miss most about drinking?

    SH: The easy camaraderie. The promise of release at the end of the day. The abandon. There’s not one thing I miss. I miss a lot, but the mental obsession goes away.

    It’s like when you miss the good parts of an old fling: Ohhh, man, that was so amazing. And then you start to remember the fights, the tears, the disasters. Eh, never mind.

    CM: You’ve also mentioned that you wrote well when you were drinking. Did you have to learn to write sober?

    SH: Definitely. What drinking did for me — not simply in writing, but in sex, and in bar-room conversations — was to turn down the volume on my own self-doubt. The disinhibiting qualities of booze can be very powerful for someone as inhibited as me. So in every one of those categories, I had to learn a more sustainable path to reducing my anxiety and doubt.

    These days, I write in bed, which is a terrible habit, but it makes me feel safe. I have to find that place where I feel like no one is watching, or I’ll get freaked out.

    CM: In some ways, you are where you are in your career — i.e., a New York Times best-selling author — because of your drinking. If you had it to do over again, what would you change?

    SH: I would wear better clothes.

    CM: Would you advise someone to become a writer?

    SH: Writing isn’t a career you pursue because someone advised you to do it. It’s a career you pursue because you feel in your bones you need to it. Financially, it’s a bad decision, like investing in mimeograph machines. It makes me laugh when someone’s flailing in their job and says: I should just write a book. It’s a bit like saying: I should just win the lottery.

    I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, but I’m saying don’t count on it. However, if you know the risks, and you still want to pursue the writing life, it can reward you in many other ways. I feel enormously grateful to be doing something I love, even if it’s something I occasionally hate.

    CM: What’s next? Are you planning another book?

    SH: Yes. After this paperback tour ends, I’m devoting myself to a new book, which I think will be a collection of essays about my relationships with men. I say “I think,” because you never know what you’re going to get until you sit down and write the thing.

    It’s like when you spitball an outline for English class, and then you actually sit down to write the essay and realize, wait, this was all wrong.

    CM: What inspires you?

    SH: I keep a list on my desktop of people whose work inspires me. Here’s a random sampling: Joan Didion, Marc Maron, Kristen Wiig, Rhett Miller, Paul Thomas Anderson. Each of those people has some quality I would like for myself. And they’re just in it.

    I also listen to music a lot, although it tends to be the same album over and over and over again. I think I have a touch of the OCD, and listening to the same songs on repeat soothes me somehow.

    Also, I’m really inspired by the work of other writers. Inspired, and envious, but that’s pretty good fuel to get moving. When I read Cheryl Strayed’s “Dear Sugar” columns, I felt like the bar had been raised for personal writing online. Meghan Daum’s The Unspeakable made me want to be observe more closely. Leslie Jamison’s The Empathy Exams made me want to be a better person.

    Ta-Nahesi Coates blew it out of the water with Between the World and Me. My friend Pam Colloff writes these stories for Texas Monthly that get at the human experience in a profound way. Oh, and David Foster Wallace. The *other* DFW. My hero.

    CM: Why did you move back to Dallas?

    SH: I knew I had to get out of New York, and for years I’d had these fantasies about Austin, where I lived in my 20s. But when I actually visited Austin, I was like: Oooh, this is expensive and crowded.

    Dallas was the shift I needed. My rent was a third of what I paid in New York, and plus, my family is here, and I liked being close to them again. I had been home to visit a few months before, and we all took this walk near the lake, where my parents live, and I was like: Oh, wow, I’m home.

    CM: Do you like being back here?

    SH: Some days. Other days, I feel like I don’t belong. Dallas is a completely underrated town in terms of culture, affordability, convenience, and diversity. Will I live here for the rest of my life? I doubt it. But I’m proud to be from this place, and to live here now.

    CM: How do you feel that Dallas has changed since you lived here before?

    SH: It’s such a better city. Look at the development of the last few years: the Arts District, Klyde Warren Park. There is a park in downtown Dallas, and people actually go to it!

    I end up having half my business meetings and online dates on Lower Greenville, which basically looks like Brooklyn in 2008. Cool coffee shops, food trucks, macarons, upscale chocolate, artisanal whatever. And Brooklyn in 2008 was a great place to be.

    CM: What do you like to do in Dallas? Any favorite haunts?

    SH: Oak Cliff is amazing. I love every restaurant in Bishop Arts. The first time I stepped into the Wild Detectives bookstore, I almost cried. Dallas has needed a place like that for so long. I’m honestly glad I don’t live any closer to Emporium Pies, because I don’t need any more proximity to their Cloud 9 pie, which is insane.

    But most of my haunts are near where I live in East Dallas. I think my favorite restaurant in the city might be Sissy’s on Henderson. That combination of great Southern cooking in an impeccable setting is so Dallas to me.

    When I’m totally stressed or in the mood to eat my feelings, I go to Matt’s El Rancho. Hey, there’s a new slogan for them: The home of Tex-Mex, and emotional eating.

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    Graceful exit

    Ben Stevenson, legendary leader of Texas Ballet Theater, dies at 89

    Stephanie Allmon Merry
    Mar 30, 2026 | 10:00 am
    Ben Stevenson
    Photo courtesy of Texas Ballet Theater
    Ben Stevenson, O.B.E.

    Ben Stevenson, OBE, the longtime artistic director of Texas Ballet Theater and a legendary ballet dancer and choreographer, died March 29, 2026 - just days shy of his 90th birthday, which would have been April 4.

    "Stevenson’s profound impact on dance spanned decades and continents, shaping countless careers and elevating ballet companies to global prominence," reads a statement from the Ben Stevenson Trust. His cause of death has not been made public.

    Stevenson served as TBT artistic director in Dallas-Fort Worth from 2003 to 2022, when he transitioned to a new role as artistic director laureate - a lifetime appointment. He continued to work with North Texas dancers in studio, set the choreography for his legendary ballets, and attend performances; he was spotted in the audience of the company's most recent mixed-rep program just weeks ago.

    “Ben Stevenson is one of the great storytellers of ballet who has brought magic to the stages of Dallas and Fort Worth," Anne Bass, then-TBT board of governors chairman, said when his appointment as artistic director laureate was announced in 2022. "It is impossible to overstate his importance in elevating our company to the internationally acclaimed ensemble that it is today.”

    Louella Martin, Ben Stevenson, Donna Arp-Weitzman, Betty Jean Willbanks, tutu chic Ben Stevenson with Betty Jean Willbanks, Donna Arp-Weitzman, and Louella Martin at a TBT Tutu Chic Luncheon. Photo by Andy Keye

    Tim O'Keefe, who took the reins as TBT artistic director from Stevenson, said of his passing on Sunday, "Ben was more than a mentor to me — he was family. His artistry, his generosity, and his vision shaped not only my own journey as a dancer and leader, but also the very heart of Texas Ballet Theater.

    "I will miss his wisdom, his humor, and his boundless passion for storytelling through dance. While my heart is heavy with grief, I am profoundly grateful for the decades of inspiration and love he shared with me and with this company. His spirit will live on in every performance, every dancer, and every audience moved by his work."

    Before his tenure with TBT, Stevenson served as artistic director of Houston Ballet, beginning in 1976. Over 27 years, he transformed the company into one of the world’s leading ensembles and founded Houston Ballet Academy.

    A ballet giant, Stevenson's choreography, from Cinderella to Dracula, is performed by companies around the globe.

    Texas Ballet Theater's annual presentation of Ben Stevenson's The Nutcracker is a holiday tradition across Dallas-Fort Worth. The company's next performance will be Ben Stevenson's Swan Lake, May 1-3 at Winspear Opera House in Dallas and May 15-17 at Bass Hall in Fort Worth. "Ben Stevenson O.B.E.’s masterful two-act production offers an elegant yet approachable retelling filled with passion, drama, and grandeur," reads the description.

    Texas Ballet Theater presents The Nutcracker Texas Ballet Theater annually presents Ben Stevenson's The Nutcracker at Bass Performance Hall and Winspear Opera House. Photo by Amitava Sarkar

    TBT's announcement of Stevenson's death on social media Sunday night brought hundreds of comments, many of whom were from former dancers in his productions who underscored the impact he'd had on their life and careers.

    Details on memorial services will be announced at a later date.

    Below is the full obituary prepared by the Ben Stevenson Trust:

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    BEN STEVENSON, OBE, decorated and acclaimed ballet dancer, teacher, choreographer, and artistic director, passed away March 29, 2026.

    A native of Portsmouth, England, Stevenson was born April 4, 1936. As a child, Stevenson received his dance training in London, England, at Arts Educational School. Upon graduation, he was awarded the prestigious Adeline Genee Gold Medal, the highest award given to a dancer by the Royal Academy of Dancing. At the age of 18, he was invited by Dame Ninette de Valois to join the world-famous Sadler’s Wells Royal Ballet (currently The Royal Ballet), where he worked with Sir Frederick Ashton, Sir Kenneth MacMillan, and John Cranko. At Sir Anton Dolin’s invitation to London Festival Ballet as a principal dancer, Stevenson performed leading roles in all the classics.

    In London’s West End, Stevenson performed the juvenile lead in ”The Music Man”, and appeared in the original casts of ”Half a Sixpence” and ”The Boys From Syracuse”. On British television’s “Sunday Night at the Palladium,” Stevenson danced in musical numbers 52 weeks a year with Judy Garland, Ella Fitzgerald, Shirley Bassey, and Cleo Laine.

    In 1967, he staged his first ballet for English National Ballet, a triumphant production of “The Sleeping Beauty” starring Dame Margot Fonteyn. His arrival in the United States one year later marked the beginning of a journey spanning the remainder of his life. Rebecca Harkness appointed him as the Director of the Harkness Youth Dancers in New York City where he created two of his most celebrated works: “Three Preludes” and “Bartok”. After Harkness, Stevenson’s next position was as the Co-Artistic Director with Fredrick Franklin of National Ballet, in Washington, D.C. where he choreographed “Cinderella” and a new production of “The Sleeping Beauty” for the inaugural season of The John F. Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts.

    After a brief association with Ruth Page's Chicago Ballet, Stevenson was appointed Artistic Director of Houston Ballet in 1976. During his tenure of 27 years, Houston Ballet grew from a small provincial ensemble to one of the largest and most respected ballet companies in the world. At Stevenson’s invitation, Sir Kenneth MacMillan and Christopher Bruce joined the Houston Ballet in 1989 as Artistic Associate and Resident Choreographer respectively, thereby establishing a permanent core of choreographers whose works contribute to the diversity of the Houston Ballet’s repertory.

    Houston Ballet, Sara Webb, The Sleeping Beauty, chor. Ben Stevenson Sara Webb and artists of the Houston Ballet in The Sleeping Beauty, choreographed by Ben Stevenson. Photo by Amitava Sarkar

    One of Stevenson’s proudest accomplishments was establishing the Houston Ballet Academy. In touch with his own inner child, Stevenson focused on developing children’s expression through movement, connecting their bodies and feelings to music. Through the Ben Stevenson Houston Ballet Academy, he provided nourishment and education for such artistic expression to grow young dancers who would ultimately become his dancers in the Houston Ballet.

    By establishing a school where he could hone his skills as a teacher to develop dancers, his vision was to build a company from the ground up. As a result, Stevenson trained several generations of world-renowned dancers including Lauren Anderson, Janie Parker, Carlos Acosta, and Li Cunxin. In 1990, Stevenson’s promotion of Lauren Anderson to principal dancer was an important milestone in American ballet, making her one of the first Principal African American ballerinas in history.

    As part of a cultural exchange program in 1978, Stevenson was among the first to gain entrance into China on behalf of the U.S. government, thus beginning a mutual love affair between China and Stevenson. He returned almost every year to teach at the Beijing Dance Academy. To expose the Chinese students to Western dance forms, Stevenson brought with him teachers of jazz and modern dance, including Gwen Verdon. In 1985, he was instrumental in the creation of the Choreographic Department at the Beijing Dance Academy. Stevenson is the only non-Chinese citizen to have been made Honorary Faculty Member there and at the Shenyang Conservatory of Music. In 2018, he was acknowledged by the Chinese government as one the most influential Foreign Experts in the 40 years since China initiated its policy on Reform and Opening Up.

    In July 1995, Stevenson led the Houston Ballet, the first full American ballet company to be invited by the Chinese government, on a two-week tour of the People’s Republic of China with performances in Beijing, Shanghai, and Shenzhen. China’s invitation was a direct result of Stevenson's international reputation. Houston Ballet’s opening night performance of “Romeo and Juliet” in Beijing was telecast live and was seen by over 500 million Chinese viewers.

    In July 2003, Stevenson became Artistic Director of Texas Ballet Theater in Fort Worth and Dallas. The company began to experience tremendous growth in budget and repertoire, as well as its education programs, all while attracting dancers from around the world. Stevenson remained Artistic Director until 2023–the longest-serving Artistic Director in the company’s history. Under his leadership, TBT flourished. His strong relationships with current and former dancers allowed him to bring world-class choreography to the company, raising the profile not only of TBT, but of the DFW Metroplex as an arts hub. Like he had in Houston, Stevenson recruited dancers to TBT from all over the world.

    Legendary for his storytelling, Stevenson has left his mark on stages in London, Munich, Norway, Paris, New York, Santiago, Brisbane, among many others. He is best known for his compelling stagings of “Swan Lake”, “Romeo and Juliet”, “Cinderella”, “The Nutcracker”, “Coppelia”, “Don Quixote”, the original productions of “Peer Gynt”, “Dracula”, “The Snow Maiden” and “Cleopatra”. His wide range of friendships included ballet luminaries and celebrities from across the globe.

    For his contributions to the world of dance, Stevenson was named an Officer of the Order of the British Empire (OBE) by Queen Elizabeth II in the New Year’s Honors listed in December 1999. His choreography also earned him numerous awards including three gold medals at the International Ballet Competition of 1972, 1982, and 1986. In April 2000, he was presented with the Dance Magazine Award, one of the most prestigious honors on the American dance scene. In 2005, he was awarded the Texas Medal of Arts.

    Devilishly sneaky and intrinsically shy, Stevenson was an introverted extrovert. He shone the brightest in his kitchen, be it at home or a French chateau. Each meal, a feast fit for kings, was a reflection of the importance he placed on communing with dancers, friends and unsuspecting passersby. His generosity knew no bounds. Nourishing body and soul, from the head of his table, he spun tales of his life entrancing all seated around him.

    Survivors include Ben’s extended family in Portsmouth, England, and a host of friends and dancers around the world who will never forget him.


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