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Real weddings

Glamorous Dallas wedding whisks in fun Hollywood surprise — complete with swear jar

Stephanie Allmon Merry
May 25, 2021 | 5:54 pm

When Kristin Kay Sanders and James Robert Hallam got engaged on Mother’s Day 2020, they set a heartfelt intention for their dream wedding the following year.

“Due to the pandemic, we felt inspired and called to put together a wonderful love-filled weekend with all of our closest friends and family after so many people had sat at home with little company and face-to-face interaction over the last year,” James says. “We thought the wedding should provide what folks had not been able to do — get dressed up and eat tasty food while dancing to incredible music.”

On that last note, the couple had one very specific — and unorthodox — source of musical inspiration in mind: the 2003 Will Ferrell frat-boy film Old School. In a famous wedding-reception scene, a band called The Dan Band embellishes the newlyweds’ first dance to “Total Eclipse of the Heart” with some, shall we say, “four-letter-word flourish.”

What if The Dan Band could show up and give James and Kristin’s guests the same out-of-nowhere, irreverent, joyful belly laughs after such a long and joyless pandemic year?

To orchestrate their wedding — including bringing in the famous band from Los Angeles — the couple called on Dallas wedding planner-to-the-stars, Steve Kemble.

Kemble crafted a two-day extravaganza for them, April 23-24, 2021 — three events in three venues — all with larger-than-life details that would fit his signature descriptor, “FABULOUS!”

Elegant extravaganza
James and Kristin were no strangers to fabulous events and experiences themselves. James — executive vice president of Ben E. Keith Co., and Kristin — an entrepreneur in fields ranging from health foods to private investigation — are theater, arts, and fashion aficionados who have traveled the world in pursuit of all three. One of their favorite dates, they agree, was the opening of the Christian Dior exhibit at the Dallas Museum of Art in 2019.

The couple loves a great long-weekend adventure, so that’s exactly what they wanted to give their wedding guests.

First came the Friday afternoon wedding ceremony at Highland Park United Methodist Church’s Cox Chapel, where James and Kristin exchanged vows before 125 friends and family, including Kristin’s sons, Jackson (13) and Christian (11) and James’ children, Georgia (21) and twins Hite and Hale (15).

For her “something old,” Kristin wore her grandmother’s wristwatch — a family heirloom for three generations — which her dad placed on her wrist before escorting her down the aisle.

The bride and groom chose not to see each other before the wedding, and the first time James glimpsed Kristin in her Carolina Herrera gown and hand-beaded veil, he nearly lost it.

“When those doors opened and she walked down with her father, I have never seen something so breathtaking in my life,” he says. “Kristin was glowing and her dress was a beautiful shade of white with roses and just lovely. It was all I could do to not burst out in tears.”

Bride and groom weren’t so successful suppressing tears when they were preparing to exchange their commitments.

“The pastor had a beautiful message about how our love should be a guiding example for all to see,” Kristin says. “Literally, James and I were choking up before we even got to our vows. I looked to see the groom and all the boys were wiping their eyes. I had to pull it together.”

After the chapel service, the wedding party and guests headed to nearby Park House at Highland Park Village for the first of two weekend receptions. The bride changed into a Chanel dress, towering balloon art sculptures greeted guests, and DJ Mark Ridlen kept the party soundtrack lively for the happy occasion.

Black-tie affair
To pull off the lavish, black-tie reception Saturday night, Kemble and a crew of 85 people worked for two days to transform Dallas Country Club into a magical, theatrical event space for 400.

Twinkling candles set amid a floral wonderland cast a romantic spell for a night of dining, sipping, celebrating, and dancing. A regal black and gold “K & J” monogram created by 5 by 7 Designs adorned everything from favor boxes (containing Kristin’s favorite Nothing Bundt Cakes) to the bar station backdrops.

One of the couple’s favorite details was a 12-foot-tall “LOVE” sculpture made of white roses and greenery that served as a selfie station. Guests also had fun with a smile imprint reader, who would have them kiss napkins and assess their smiles. “Men used lipstick, which was priceless,” James says.

And then there was the cake — “OMG! The cake, the cake!,” Kristin enthuses. “Dallas Affaires created this contemporary, stunning design that had eight layers of pure ecstasy.”

The newlyweds had kept The Dan Band a surprise for their guests, but an unusual decor detail hinted that something unorthodox was about to happen.

“Given That Dan Band was going to be hurling well placed obscenities (as nice as you can) from the stage at the Dallas Country Club, I thought we should bring back the Bud Light 'Swear Jar' to get the audience wondering what in the world was about to happen,” James says. “Steve over delivered as usual and had a single spotlight on a Best Maid pickle jar, and as you would expect, as guests noticed it, they were asking “Why is there a swear jar?”

James and Kristin (in a Ralph Lauren gown for this party) had taken Arthur Murray dance lessons for three months to pull off The Dan Band “Total Eclipse of the Heart" scene exactly as it unfolded in Old School — down to their “surprised” reaction when the lead singer tossed off the first obscenity. The crowd caught on and was quickly laughing along, just as the couple had hoped.

After an hour of Dan Band fun and entertainment, the Jordan Kahn Orchestra — complete with brass section, backup singers, Go Go dancers, and light show — took over the stage to dance the night away.

“The Hallam reception celebrated and danced until the lights were turned on,” James says.

In fact, the bride and groom were having so much fun themselves, they skipped a traditional “grand exit” and were among the last to leave.

“We were having so much fun dancing with everyone,” they say, “the idea of leaving early was not an option.”

Just as they'd envisioned all those months ago.

Wedding planner: Steve Kemble
Ceremony: Highland Park United Methodist Church
Friday reception: Park House, Highland Park Village
Saturday reception and catering: Dallas Country Club
Bridal attire: Carolina Herrera (bridal gown), Alisa Culp for Haute Hot Lingerie (custom veil), Ralph Lauren Purple Label (Saturday reception gown), Chanel (Friday reception dress)
Groom’s tuxedo: Custom Vitale Barberis Canonico, Italy — Neiman Marcus
Floral: Dr. Delphinium Designs and Events
Cake: Dallas Affaires Cake Co.
Entertainment: The Dan Band, Jordan Kahn Orchestra (Saturday reception), DJ Mark Ridlen (Friday reception)
Photography: Danny Campbell Photography, Bryan Chatlien Photography
Audio and lighting: Eagle AVL, Miller Pro Audio
Favors: Nothing Bundt Cakes
Invitations, favor boxes, napkins: 5 By 7 Designs
Linen and chairs: TLC Event Rentals and Production Inc.
Custom bars, food stations, dance floor: Shag Carpet Prop Rentals
Drapery: Quest Events
Party balloon art sculptures: EZ Party Time
Hair and makeup: Jose Hernandez
Transportation: Wynne Transportation
Entertainment booking: Gary Osier Presents, Bravo Entertainment
Accommodations: The Lumen Dallas

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Know of a Dallas-area wedding to consider for publication? Email stephanie@culturemap.com. Weddings must have taken place since July 1, 2019 and must not have appeared in other local publications.

James Hallam and Kristin Sanders celebrated their wedding with a two-day extravaganza, April 23-24, 2021.

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Photo by Danny Campbell Photography and Bryan Chatlien Photography
James Hallam and Kristin Sanders celebrated their wedding with a two-day extravaganza, April 23-24, 2021.
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Reaching new heights

Dallas Cattle Baron’s Ball 2026 soars high with Chris Stapleton

Stephanie Allmon Merry
Oct 19, 2026 | 9:45 am
Cattle Baron's Ball 2026
Photo by Ashley Gongora
Emily Morales, David Reyna

Dallas’ biggest party of the year took flight Saturday, October 17, as more than 3,000 attendees descended on Southfork Ranch for the 53rd annual Cattle Baron’s Ball. The theme was “Soar Higher,” but temperatures took a nosedive on this fall night, giving guests a reason to layer fur shrugs and fringe jackets over their best Western-chic looks.

Cattle Baron's Ball 2026

Photo by Ashley Gongora

Emily Morales, David Reyna

The 2026 fundraiser for American Cancer Society, presented by Texas Oncology and co-chaired by Cynthia Everitt and Paige Westhoff, brought together Dallas’ jet-setters and philanthropic crowd for big-ticket bidding, a Texas-sized culinary spread, and a headlining performance by country superstar Chris Stapleton.

The evening got underway at a VIP party featuring live music from Briscoe and the first bites of many throughout the night: steak frites, corn and poblano gnocchi, and lobster and shrimp flautas, all provided by Vestals Catering.

Mistress of ceremonies, NBC5 morning anchor Deborah Ferguson, welcomed patrons and reminded them of the evening's mission, to support "fantastic scientists, doctors, and researchers who do all they can to end cancer as we know it. In 2026, the challenge is to soar higher than we ever have before," she said.

Attendees posed for photos around Southfork’s sprawling grounds in the fading evening light. In keeping with the "soar higher" theme, two show-stopping attractions caught special attention: a 9-pound bald eagle and a tiny owl, both tethered to handlers from conservation nonprofit Window to the Wild and sponsored by Faulconer Energy. (The eagle seemed to be looking guests right in the eye - a closer encounter than many have probably ever had with such a magnificent bird.)

Cattle Baron's Ball 2026 The bald eagle accompanied by a handler from Windows to the Wild.Photo courtesy of Cattle Baron's Ball

There was no shortage of ways for guests to show off their party looks, as photo booths around the event ranged from from a robotic Glambot to backdrops that placed guests in a forest or a Neiman Marcus storefront window. Mary Kay Glam Stations offered makeup touch-ups next to a stand pouring La Crema rosé bubbly - a perfectly pink pairing. Guests could also browse and buy Lucchese boots or Western apparel from Westerly, or personalize a bandana with Mandriana Bandanas.

The traditional barbecue buffet dinner was served across Southfork’s indoor and outdoor spaces, including the Stallion Stampede dining plaza. Vestals Catering served up a menu that included Dr Pepper-chipotle braised short rib, adobo slow-smoked chicken thighs, Central Texas smoked pork sausage, loaded mashed potatoes, and (almost humorously) giant brown butter-Texas honey cornbread muffins, served with jalapeño butter. A dessert station brought sopapilla cheesecake with cinnamon apple compote, warm peach cobbler with vanilla ice cream, and signature ginger molasses cake.

No one went thirsty. The evening's signature cocktails paid tribute to Stapleton’s songbook. “Fire Away” combined Patrón Reposado, Mike’s Hot Honey, lemon juice, and mango juice for a spicy, tangy sip. “Nobody to Blame” mixed Grey Goose vodka with cranberry and peach juices, lime, and Fever-Tree ginger ale - garnished with a mini plastic cowboy hat. Espresso martinis, Irish coffees, Hugo Spritzes, and mezcal drinks were also on offer a stations throughout the event.

A parade of cowgirl bell-ringing baronesses signaled it was time for the live auction to begin. Led by live auction-tainer Letitia Frye, this year's 21 jaw-dropping prize packages included fantasy trips to Napa Valley, Mexico, the Mediterranean, Argentina for a dove hunt, an Alaska cruise, Jackson Hole and Santa Fe, Vail, and England, along with custom diamond jewelry and art. A chance to sit front-row for Stapleton’s concert was also sold multiple times. A surprise final item offered a luxury trip to the U.S. Open tennis tournament in New York.

Cattle Baron's Ball 2026 The live auction stays lively.Photo by Ashley Gongora

Each year, one of the most coveted and big-ticket auction items is a wine dinner prepared by some of Dallas' finest chefs — a group that calls itself "The Texas 7," including Kent Rathbun, Dean Fearing, Nick Barclay, and Richard Chamberlain. The opportunity to have the chefs prepare a gourmet dinner together sold twice for $150,000 each, bringing in $300,000.

As most packages sold for at least $20,000, the live auction alone brought in well over $1 million. Meanwhile, the expansive silent auction featured hundreds of items, from art and home goods to wine and shopping experiences. Raffle tickets offered the chance to win a NorthPark shopping spree, a car from Park Place Automotive, and more.

The night’s most moving fundraising moment came with the "paddle raise," which honored the family of the late Colin Fitzgibbons. A video introduced the story of Jessica and Colin Fitzgibbons. Because of her family history of colon cancer, Jessica had encouraged her husband to schedule a colonoscopy as a precaution. He was diagnosed with colon cancer and died on November 21, 2025, at age 46.

Colin was a devoted husband and father to three boys — Patrick, Conor, and Declan — as well as a respected leader, loyal friend, and beloved youth sports coach known as “Coach Colin.” His family appeared on stage in the hopes that sharing his story would encourage others to get screened. Proceeds from the paddle raise (which is still open for donations) will directly support innovative cancer research in Texas.

Away from the auction room, the casino sponsored by Anne Davidson drew players who wanted to try their luck, while the Fauxcades Sports Lounge attracted a surprisingly enthusiastic crowd of college football fans, including those following the Saturday-night matchup between Notre Dame vs. BYU. Outside, guests could test their mettle on the traditional mechanical bull or warm up around the S’mores Lounge.

When the clock struck 10 pm and the crowd made its way to the Main Stage Tent, the excitement built for the night’s headliner. Stapleton took the Andrews Distributing Main Stage, presented by Coors Banquet, for a roughly 90-minute set that showcased his gravelly, soulful vocals and formidable guitar work.

Cattle Baron's Ball 2026 Chris Stapleton performs on stage.Photo by Ashley Gongora

His wife, Morgane, joined him to add her rich harmonies. There wasn’t much between-song chatter; Stapleton let the music do the talking, running through his big hits like "Fire Away" and "Broken Halos" and ending with the crowd-pleasing “Tennessee Whiskey.”

When the house lights went up inside the tent, the night still had plenty of life left in it. Dustin Becker took over the after-party, keeping guests on their feet, line dancing, two-stepping, and boogeying to discos, ’90s favorites, and hip hop. Late-night nachos and sliders helped fuel the final stretch, and rumor was there were Whataburger chicken biscuits being handed out, but they vanished quickly.

It has to be said: For all the high-profile entertainment and high-dollar bidding, some of the night’s unsung heroes were working out of sight to make the evening "soar." The same room that hosted the VIP party became the live auction venue and then the after-party space. Between each phase, crews changed signage, swapped out food, and rearranged furniture at warp speed, transforming the room while guests moved on to the next attraction.

It's this kind of behind-the-scenes choreography that helps keep Dallas’ biggest party humming along so "easily" for attendees.

Cattle Baron's Ball 2026 A mechanical bull is a Cattle Baron's Ball tradition.Photo by Ashley Gongora

Cattle Baron’s Ball is the world’s largest single-night fundraiser for the American Cancer Society, having raised more than $111 million for cancer research since 1974. The final tally from this year’s event was still being counted, and the amount raised is expected to be announced soon.

Among those spotted in the crowd were Emily Morales, David Reyna Sarah Groves, Laura Black, Taryn McDonald, Alex Machoka, Exie Machoka, Devon Gadberry, Sequoia Hood, Molly Henríquez, Alyssa Thomas, Hilary Boozer, Kristin Powers, Melissa Sherill, Joanna Clarke, JB Hayes, Elizabeth Washburn, Katherine Wynne, Adrienne Henk, Morgan Williams, Meghan McGahee, Gina Hargrave, Trevor Gruenewald, Rhonda Gruenewald, Laurie King, Fallon Appleton, Chris Kahle, Austin Green, Cory Kartz, Natascha Hood, Laura Baldwin, Christina Mintner, Elizabeth Sabb, Lisa Bhattacharya, Rosalie Ingraham, Carolyn Karins, Sharon Montgomery, Cindy McCarty, Amanda Williams, Turbo Williams, Matthew Macko, Christi Macko, Whitney Would, Betsy Toney, Allison Stone, Rita Han, Melissa Howard, and thousands more.

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