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    Legal Drama

    Family speaks out about suing Birchman Baptist Church over father's $100,000 estate

    Claire St. Amant
    Aug 15, 2014 | 8:30 am

    Those who knew Sean Rafferty are speaking out against what they call a Fort Worth church’s attempt to profit from his death. Rafferty died from an apparent suicide on June 25, 2013. Just 24 hours before taking his own life, Rafferty, a divorced father of two, signed away his $100,000 life insurance policy to Birchman Baptist Church.

    The policy had previously benefited his adult children, Scarlette Rafferty Elliot and Sean Paul Rafferty. They are now suing Birchman for the right to their father’s estate.

    In a letter defending the church’s claim on the policy, attorney Randall Schmidt wrote that Rafferty had “no relationship” with his children and had been “scorned” by them.

    “The church has turned their back on the Rafferty family in the name of greed,” says friend Phil Basile.

    Phil Basile lived across the street from the Raffertys for 15 years. He doesn’t give any weight to the assertion that Scarlette and Sean weren’t in relationship with their father.

    “That’s just not true,” Basile says, adding that Sean visited his father “fairly often” up until the time of his death.

    Birchman and Schmidt did not respond to repeated requests for comment on the lawsuit.

    Although he admits to overhearing some arguments between Sean Paul and his father through the years, Basile says it was nothing out of the ordinary. “Name one teenage boy that doesn’t fight with his father.”

    Basile is baffled by the idea that Birchman would pursue monetary gain while the Rafferty family is in pain.

    “The church has turned their back on them in the name of greed,” Basile says. “I was very surprised when it happened, then I was sad, and now I’m angry.

    “The fact that he changed the beneficiary the day before he took his own life, that tells you that he wasn’t in his right mind at that point and anyone should have seen it.”

    According to Bankers Life and Casualty Company, the request to change the beneficiary from Sean Rafferty’s children to Birchman Baptist was faxed from the church office on June 24, 2013.

    The form wasn’t processed until June 26, 2013 — a day after Rafferty had already died from a self-inflicted gunshot wound. The timing, along with the fact that the children don’t believe the signature on the change of beneficiary form is actually their father’s, is one of many elements under dispute.

    “When a guy goes to a church and is suicidal, you don’t talk him into giving away his money. You counsel him,” says attorney William Brotherton.

    Sean Rafferty’s ex-wife, Paula Rafferty, also disagrees with the assertion that her children were estranged from their father or the church.

    In Schmidt’s letter, he quotes Birchman pastor Bob Pearle as saying that Scarlette and Sean “hadn’t been in contact with the church in quite some time and declined the church’s involvement with any funeral arrangements for Mr. Rafferty.”

    Paula says her daughter was active in church activities up until the point when she moved to Oklahoma and got married, and her son continued to mow Birchman’s grass as late as 2012.

    “I was struck by the portrayal of what the pastor said. It sounded as if they had not been there for ages. They grew up in that church,” Paula says. “Everyone they knew was there. They were quite happy there.”

    Pearle did not respond to repeated phone calls and emails for comment on this story.

    When Paula learned that Birchman was contesting her children’s rights to their father’s life insurance, she was in disbelief. “When I found out the church was listed as the beneficiary, I said 'you’re kidding,’” she recalls.

    Birchman Baptist Church is one of the largest congregations in the Southern Baptist Convention. It lists a weekly budget of more than $50,000 and about $2.6 million annually.

    “It’s kind of strange that you’d fight so hard for something that you’d hardly notice,” Paula says. “Whereas for the children, it would go a long way in paying student loans,” Paula says.

    She pulled out her paperwork from the divorce and called the insurance company. “I had thought that the divorce decree ensured that the policy would go to Scarlette and Sean Paul,” she says.

    The children were designated as beneficiaries by court order in 2010 when Mr. and Mrs. Rafferty divorced. Whether or not Mr. Rafferty had the right to change his life insurance policy after Sean and Scarlette turned 18 is now being debated.

    “The church has fought this tooth and nail,” says attorney William Brotherton, who is representing the children. “When a guy goes to a church and is suicidal, you don’t talk him into giving away his money. You get someone to counsel him.”

    As it turns out, this isn’t the first time Birchman Baptist Church has been accused of preying on a troubled congregant.

    In 2003, Linda Reed sued Birchman and a relative of the church’s comptroller for conspiring to swindle 82-year-old father out of more than $30,000. The church was directly accused of having the elderly man with dementia write a check for $1,000, which according to the lawsuit, Birchman then refused to return. Reed eventually dropped the suit.

    The next hearing in the Rafferty lawsuit is September 2. In an odd coincidence, Birchman Baptist will host a seminar titled Financial Peace University on September 7. “Turn your finances into a well-oiled machine that prepares for the future and honors God,” the church’s description reads.

    Meanwhile, Paula says Scarlette and Sean are trying their best to move on. “They are having to go through all of this on top of the loss of their father. They will never have another father. To me, it seems very much of a conquest for the church.”

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    RIP Tom

    Prominent Dallas businessman and sports mogul Tom Hicks dies at 79

    CultureMap Staff
    Dec 7, 2025 | 7:30 am
    Tom Hicks
    By American Battle Monuments Commission
    Tom Hicks, RIP

    Thomas O. Hicks, legendary Texas businessman, philanthropist, mentor, and devoted husband and father, died in Dallas on December 6, surrounded by his family; he was 79.

    Hicks was widely regarded as a pioneer in American business, reshaping private equity and introducing strategies that influenced an entire generation of investors. He co-founded Hicks & Haas in 1984, where he executed landmark deals including the transformative Dr Pepper/7UP merger. He later co-founded Hicks, Muse, Tate & Furst in 1989, which grew into one of the largest private equity platforms of its era, completing major transactions across consumer products, broadcasting, and food and beverage.

    More importantly, Hicks was known for his integrity, generosity, and loyalty in business—qualities that shaped every partnership he formed and every life he touched.

    Longtime friend and peer in Dallas business community Richard Fisher reflected on this spirit, saying, “Tom Hicks was a legend in finance who perfected the leveraged buyout and pioneered the ‘buy and build’ strategy by creating one of the world’s largest beverage companies. Best of all, he was a devoted, constant friend who supported me with gusto when I ran for the U.S. Senate, even though we were from different parties. A man is measured by his affection for and unflinching support of family and friends. At this, Tom was a true champion.”

    Hicks’s influence extended well beyond business. A passionate sports fan, he owned and chaired the Dallas Stars from 1995–2011, guiding the club to multiple division titles, two Presidents’ Trophies, and the 1999 Stanley Cup Championship. He also owned the Texas Rangers from 1998–2010, leading the team to three American West Division titles and a World Series appearance.

    In 2007, he acquired a 50% stake in Liverpool F.C., making him one of the few individuals to hold simultaneous ownership across NHL, MLB, and Premier League organizations.

    “Tom was a close friend and a great partner. He dreamed big and watching him bring the Stanley Cup here to Dallas was something that I will always cherish,” said Dallas Cowboys Owner, President and General Manager Jerry Jones. “Tom was a champion for sports, and we had the same vision for Arlington—to make it a destination where fans could feel the heartbeat of our teams and our community together. Being shoulder to shoulder with him was always about more than ballparks and stadiums, though. It was about personal respect, trust and friendship. We shared a lot of miles together, and I’ll miss him greatly. My heart goes out to his family.”

    He also made extraordinary contributions to the city of Dallas, helping shape the region’s cultural, educational, and civic landscape across decades. Hicks played an instrumental role in the development and planning of the American Airlines Center, which opened in 2001, and contributed significantly to the Santiago Calatrava–designed Margaret Hunt Hill Bridge spanning the Trinity River.

    He also supported education initiatives across North Texas, including the land donation that became Tom Hicks Elementary in the Lewisville Independent School District.

    Reflecting on Hicks’s profound impact on the city he loved, Ross Perot Jr. said, “Tom Hicks was an innovative businessman and a pioneer in private equity. He combined his commitment to business and sports through his ownership of the Stars and the Rangers. Tom was dedicated to Dallas and, as a partner in the American Airlines Center, helped revitalize an important part of downtown. He was a great partner and a longtime friend, a man of vision and courage who loved his country and Texas. He played a meaningful role in building our great city, and he will be remembered with gratitude.”

    In addition to his business and civic achievements, Hicks remained deeply involved with the University of Texas, where he served on the Board of Regents from 1994 to 1999 and helped establish UTIMCO, now the largest public university endowment in the country—an accomplishment he regarded as one of the most meaningful contributions of his professional life.

    Hicks also served his country. He was a paratrooper in the Army Reserves and later served as a presidentially appointed Commissioner of the American Battle Monuments Commission, which oversees U.S. military cemeteries and memorials around the world.

    Yet above all his accomplishments, Hicks will be remembered most for his profound love of family. Known by those close to him for his humor, intellect, and steadfast leadership, Hicks treasured time with his children and grandchildren above all else. He is survived by his beloved wife of 35 years, Cinda Cree Hicks; his six children—Thomas Ollis Hicks Jr., Mack Hardin Hicks, John Alexander Hicks, Robert Bradley Hicks, William Cree Hicks, and Catherine Forgrave Hicks. He was a much-loved father-in-law to Alexandra, Stacy, Portia, Rachel, Paige, and Rick. Finally, his greatest joy was his grandchildren, all fourteen and counting: John, Jet, Isabella, Eloise, Annabelle, Gigi, Mack Hardin Jr., Scarlett, James, Lincoln, Jake, Hawk, Campbell, and Nancy.

    His six children collectively shared, “Of everything he accomplished in his remarkable life, Tom Hicks’s most cherished title was, ‘Dad’. No matter the trials and tribulations he faced in life, he was constant in his generosity and love for his family. He remains a guiding force for our family, and we are deeply honored to continue expanding his legacy. Although we are devastated by this loss, we are profoundly grateful to have been his children.”

    Services are pending, and additional information will be provided as arrangements are finalized.

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