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Glamorous Dallas wedding whisks in fun Hollywood surprise — complete with swear jar

When Kristin Kay Sanders and James Robert Hallam got engaged on Mother’s Day 2020, they set a heartfelt intention for their dream wedding the following year.

“Due to the pandemic, we felt inspired and called to put together a wonderful love-filled weekend with all of our closest friends and family after so many people had sat at home with little company and face-to-face interaction over the last year,” James says. “We thought the wedding should provide what folks had not been able to do — get dressed up and eat tasty food while dancing to incredible music.”

On that last note, the couple had one very specific — and unorthodox — source of musical inspiration in mind: the 2003 Will Ferrell frat-boy film Old School. In a famous wedding-reception scene, a band called The Dan Band embellishes the newlyweds’ first dance to “Total Eclipse of the Heart” with some, shall we say, “four-letter-word flourish.”

What if The Dan Band could show up and give James and Kristin’s guests the same out-of-nowhere, irreverent, joyful belly laughs after such a long and joyless pandemic year?

To orchestrate their wedding — including bringing in the famous band from Los Angeles — the couple called on Dallas wedding planner-to-the-stars, Steve Kemble.

Kemble crafted a two-day extravaganza for them, April 23-24, 2021 — three events in three venues — all with larger-than-life details that would fit his signature descriptor, “FABULOUS!”

Elegant extravaganza
James and Kristin were no strangers to fabulous events and experiences themselves. James — executive vice president of Ben E. Keith Co., and Kristin — an entrepreneur in fields ranging from health foods to private investigation — are theater, arts, and fashion aficionados who have traveled the world in pursuit of all three. One of their favorite dates, they agree, was the opening of the Christian Dior exhibit at the Dallas Museum of Art in 2019.

The couple loves a great long-weekend adventure, so that’s exactly what they wanted to give their wedding guests.

First came the Friday afternoon wedding ceremony at Highland Park United Methodist Church’s Cox Chapel, where James and Kristin exchanged vows before 125 friends and family, including Kristin’s sons, Jackson (13) and Christian (11) and James’ children, Georgia (21) and twins Hite and Hale (15).

For her “something old,” Kristin wore her grandmother’s wristwatch — a family heirloom for three generations — which her dad placed on her wrist before escorting her down the aisle.

The bride and groom chose not to see each other before the wedding, and the first time James glimpsed Kristin in her Carolina Herrera gown and hand-beaded veil, he nearly lost it.

“When those doors opened and she walked down with her father, I have never seen something so breathtaking in my life,” he says. “Kristin was glowing and her dress was a beautiful shade of white with roses and just lovely. It was all I could do to not burst out in tears.”

Bride and groom weren’t so successful suppressing tears when they were preparing to exchange their commitments.

“The pastor had a beautiful message about how our love should be a guiding example for all to see,” Kristin says. “Literally, James and I were choking up before we even got to our vows. I looked to see the groom and all the boys were wiping their eyes. I had to pull it together.”

After the chapel service, the wedding party and guests headed to nearby Park House at Highland Park Village for the first of two weekend receptions. The bride changed into a Chanel dress, towering balloon art sculptures greeted guests, and DJ Mark Ridlen kept the party soundtrack lively for the happy occasion.

Black-tie affair
To pull off the lavish, black-tie reception Saturday night, Kemble and a crew of 85 people worked for two days to transform Dallas Country Club into a magical, theatrical event space for 400.

Twinkling candles set amid a floral wonderland cast a romantic spell for a night of dining, sipping, celebrating, and dancing. A regal black and gold “K & J” monogram created by 5 by 7 Designs adorned everything from favor boxes (containing Kristin’s favorite Nothing Bundt Cakes) to the bar station backdrops.

One of the couple’s favorite details was a 12-foot-tall “LOVE” sculpture made of white roses and greenery that served as a selfie station. Guests also had fun with a smile imprint reader, who would have them kiss napkins and assess their smiles. “Men used lipstick, which was priceless,” James says.

And then there was the cake — “OMG! The cake, the cake!,” Kristin enthuses. “Dallas Affaires created this contemporary, stunning design that had eight layers of pure ecstasy.”

The newlyweds had kept The Dan Band a surprise for their guests, but an unusual decor detail hinted that something unorthodox was about to happen.

“Given That Dan Band was going to be hurling well placed obscenities (as nice as you can) from the stage at the Dallas Country Club, I thought we should bring back the Bud Light 'Swear Jar' to get the audience wondering what in the world was about to happen,” James says. “Steve over delivered as usual and had a single spotlight on a Best Maid pickle jar, and as you would expect, as guests noticed it, they were asking “Why is there a swear jar?”

James and Kristin (in a Ralph Lauren gown for this party) had taken Arthur Murray dance lessons for three months to pull off The Dan Band “Total Eclipse of the Heart" scene exactly as it unfolded in Old School — down to their “surprised” reaction when the lead singer tossed off the first obscenity. The crowd caught on and was quickly laughing along, just as the couple had hoped.

After an hour of Dan Band fun and entertainment, the Jordan Kahn Orchestra — complete with brass section, backup singers, Go Go dancers, and light show — took over the stage to dance the night away.

“The Hallam reception celebrated and danced until the lights were turned on,” James says.

In fact, the bride and groom were having so much fun themselves, they skipped a traditional “grand exit” and were among the last to leave.

“We were having so much fun dancing with everyone,” they say, “the idea of leaving early was not an option.”

Just as they'd envisioned all those months ago.

Wedding planner: Steve Kemble
Ceremony: Highland Park United Methodist Church
Friday reception: Park House, Highland Park Village
Saturday reception and catering: Dallas Country Club
Bridal attire: Carolina Herrera (bridal gown), Alisa Culp for Haute Hot Lingerie (custom veil), Ralph Lauren Purple Label (Saturday reception gown), Chanel (Friday reception dress)
Groom’s tuxedo: Custom Vitale Barberis Canonico, Italy — Neiman Marcus
Floral: Dr. Delphinium Designs and Events
Cake: Dallas Affaires Cake Co.
Entertainment: The Dan Band, Jordan Kahn Orchestra (Saturday reception), DJ Mark Ridlen (Friday reception)
Photography: Danny Campbell Photography, Bryan Chatlien Photography
Audio and lighting: Eagle AVL, Miller Pro Audio
Favors: Nothing Bundt Cakes
Invitations, favor boxes, napkins: 5 By 7 Designs
Linen and chairs: TLC Event Rentals and Production Inc.
Custom bars, food stations, dance floor: Shag Carpet Prop Rentals
Drapery: Quest Events
Party balloon art sculptures: EZ Party Time
Hair and makeup: Jose Hernandez
Transportation: Wynne Transportation
Entertainment booking: Gary Osier Presents, Bravo Entertainment
Accommodations: The Lumen Dallas

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Know of a Dallas-area wedding to consider for publication? Email stephanie@culturemap.com. Weddings must have taken place since July 1, 2019 and must not have appeared in other local publications.

James Hallam and Kristin Sanders celebrated their wedding with a two-day extravaganza, April 23-24, 2021.

Photo by Danny Campbell Photography and Bryan Chatlien Photography

James Hallam and Kristin Sanders celebrated their wedding with a two-day extravaganza, April 23-24, 2021.

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Grace and grandeur

44 Dallas Symphony debutantes make regal bows at 40th Presentation Ball

Photo by Danny Campbell

Jaya Cagle escorted by Ryan McCord during the 2026 Dallas Symphony Orchestra League Presentation Ball.

The 40th Dallas Symphony Orchestra League Presentation Ball brought a resplendent night of poise and pageantry - draped in pink - to the Meyerson Symphony Center on Saturday, February 21.

The glittering event marked three milestones in 2026, all worthy of grand celebration: 125 years of the Dallas Symphony Orchestra; 80 years of the Dallas Symphony Orchestra League; and 40 years of the DSOL Presentation Ball.

The opulent evening drew 1,200 attendees, impeccably dressed in their ballgowns and black- or white-tie tuxedos, for one of Dallas’ most glamorous formal events of the year. The Dallas Symphony Orchestra League is the largest of its kind in the nation, and the annual Presentation Ball is its largest fundraiser.

The 2026 milestone Presentation Ball took place under the guidance of co-chairs Kristin Hallam and Maggie Kipp, alongside DSOL president Claire Catrino (herself a 2011 DSOL debutante).

The evening’s honorary chairs were longtime Dallas Symphony supporters Fanchon and Howard Hallam. (To wit: A gift from the Hallams was instrumental in establishing the Kim Noltemy Young Musicians Program, one of the programs that the Presentation Ball supports.)

DSOL Presentation Ball 2026 Maggie Kipp, Claire Catrino, Kristin HallamPhoto by Danny Campbell

Guests arrived early for a cocktail reception in the lower lobby of the Meyerson. As the chimes rang, women picked up their dresses and the crowd ascended the staircase to the grand lobby, which was already set for dinner later that evening.

Working with various shades of "ruby" - the traditional 40th anniversary gemstone - event planner Steve Kemble, producer Tom Addis, and The Garden Gate owner Junior Villanueva decked out the space in blushes, burgundies, and deeper pinks - from the draping, to the table linens and floral arrangements, to the dance floor.

As stunning as the venue looked, however, the stars of the night were the 44 young women who made their debuts inside the concert hall:

Claire Francis Andrews, Madeline Grace Behrens, Claire Louise Bradshaw, Ryan Ella Marie Brown, Eleanor Baxter Browne, Meredith Lilly Burkhart, Jaya Fields Cagle, Catherine Sophia Cox, Larkin McKay Devening, Marbella Mora Duarte, Sophie Elizabeth Dybala, Kathryne Grace Eastin, Gisele Mary Rose Enrico, Ashley Shannon Goldman, Stella Jane Grabham, MaKenna Loy Harvey, Elizabeth Ann Hautt, Jane Penny Hochman, Madeleine Christine Jenkins, Livia Grace Lange, Charlotte Bryant Lauten, Madeline Mae Mayer, Sue Sealy McGowin, Attales Grace Meyer, Elizabeth Catherine Nance, Madelyn Leigh Neuhoff, Carly Nicole Polka, Chloe Olivia Polka, Rachel Camille Rader, Sofia Marie Reyes, Marlo Elizabeth Rivas, Campbell Ann Schultz, Kathleen Brooks Searcy, Lindy Kate Smith, Sienna Alexis Stagen, Tessa Elizabeth Stephenson, Charlotte Spencer Stiles, Harper Catherine Tagg, Margaret Lee Thompson, Corinne Elizabeth Tinker, Georgia Bedell Williamson, Virginia Anne Wilson, Olivia Constance Zambrano, and Elena Catherine Zeballos.

DSOL Presentation Ball 2026 McKenna Harvey presented by John Harvey on the stage, bathed in pink light.Photo by Danny Campbell

After each woman was introduced by master of ceremonies Stan Gardner, they were escorted gingerly down the staircase by their father, or in some cases, a brother or uncle, who gave them a little smooch on the cheek and carefully stepped around their billowing white dresses to watch them take their bows.

While the Dave Alexander Orchestra serenaded to a song of their choosing, they walked forward on stage, floated their arms out while clutching a bouquet, and curtsied all the way to the floor. Members of the Honor Guard then offered their hand to assist the debs' rise from the floor and carefully escorted them off stage.

DSOL Presentation Ball 2026 Olivia Lange takes her bow.Photo by Danny Campbell

The famous "Texas Dip" is both a feat of gymnastics and a most regal courtly bow. The debs had worked for months to perfect the maneuver under the guidance of Densil Adams and Mia Davis.

Once all 44 debs had been presented, they re-entered the stage with the Honor Guard for a final "photo finish" called the Grand Tableau. The crowd made up of family and college-age friends applauded and cheered enthusiastically for all on stage.

The formalities weren't done yet. An ensemble of trumpeters played a fanfare as the debs and their escorts processed into the foyer. There, the young women's fathers were waiting for a traditional grand waltz on the dance floor.

DSOL Presentation Ball 2026 The debs dance with their dads.Photo by Danny Campbell

Guests sat down to dinner of Caprese salad, seared filet, and a chocolate wine cake or berry cheese mousse dome; attentive wine stewards never let glasses run dry.

The dance floor quickly filled to the sounds of the Jordan Kahn Orchestra.

The presentation of Dallas Symphony debutantes is a time-honored tradition for many of Dallas' most influential and philanthropic families.

The Dallas Symphony debutantes are of college age and typically are graduates of Dallas-area high schools, but may be attending college out of the area. Participation is open to all young women. Like pledging a sorority, participants pay fees and participate in parties, fundraisers, classes, and other events throughout the year, all leading up to the Presentation Ball.

The annual event also represents a fun coming-together of generations. This year, for example, debutante mom Lee Thompson (who was presented in the second year of the Presentation Ball) and husband David (who was her Honor Guard escort) watched as their second daughter, Margaret, made her debut. The Cox family celebrated a second debutante daughter with Cate’s debut, and the Stiles family saw the presentation of a third daughter, Charlotte.

DSOL Presentation Ball 2026 Honorary chairs Fanchon and Howard Hallam.Photo by Danny Campbell

It was also a big night for the Hallam family. Co-chair Kristin Hallam's husband, James (son of honorary chairs Fanchon and Howard Hallam), is a former Honor Guard. Three of the next-generation Hallams participated in the 2926 Honor Guard: Hite Hallam, Hale Hallam, and Benton Lynch.

Also playing significant roles this year: Barbara and Don Averitt, who have assisted the debutantes since the first ball; and ball committee members Nancy Gopez, Sarah Mills, Annabel Toole, Stephanie Hunt, Mari Epperson, Christine Winn, Belinda Hancock, Nancy Labadie, Marena Gault, Sandy Ammons, and Sharon Ballew. Also lending their support were Michelle Miller Burns, the Ross Perot President and CEO of the Dallas Symphony Orchestra, and Roger Gault, chair of the DSO Board of Governors.

Since its founding in 1946 by visionary philanthropist Tincy Miller, the DSOL has contributed over $25 million to the Dallas Symphony Orchestra’s education and outreach programs.

Photo by Danny Campbell

Jaya Cagle escorted by Ryan McCord during the 2026 Dallas Symphony Orchestra League Presentation Ball.

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